I've had sex with Japanese men & women, I highly recommend it if you're attracted to them. What appeals to me about the males is their feminine looks, it comes naturally. The few I was with were smaller-endowed, which, for me, was a major plus.
I would love to employ a young Japanese teen - newly enrolled in the university less than a mile away from my townhome - to be student-by-day and my houseboy in the evenings. As my houseboy, he would keep my home tidy and organized but his primary duties would be to crossdress every evening - like the delicious Japanese boy in this video - and allow me to use his slim body as my personal property and entertainment.
Everything you said is my experience also but my most experience is in Thailand and the Philippines both countries with eager handsome men with feminine energy