I think you are correct. Recording has its little thrills, but also has it's drawbacks. It's amost like the biggest area of trust with having a sexual good time is that the other person may break that trust. To me I NEVER EVER NEVER even take a chance with breaking trust. Too hard to get back. If I even think I might break trust I ; 1) just don't, or 2) ask first. Oddly enough, some people get really ticked off if a person even asks. I look at it like hey they were upfront enough to ask, so even if the answer is no I feel like they are likely trustworthy. Othertwise they may never have asked to start with. JMHO